Ineffable Ontological Detanglement .: Introspective Assistance & Mental Analysis Manual
If anybody ever states "I would never say anything behind your back." they're either rampant and on a mission, or they didn't think they would however they recently did. It's uniform, to most of us it is incredibly simple to spot. The correct line is more like "I really try to watch it. Not because... No. Just. In general."
Know that it's happening, probably with everyone you know. If you're an ego univested cognitive functioning level three and so is everyone you're friends with you should be reasonably safe on people doing false at you and then needing it, not entirely, but, reasonably safe. However obviously you understand every single person in your life of level two cognitive functioning, no matter their level of ego investment is false at you and then needing it, needing it bad, needing it really really bad they're OBSESSED, they're OBSESSED.
Who else are we gonna talk about? Some other person? If a person isn't talking about you behind your back it's probably even more of an insult.
Ideally, what you want is the exact same level of making fun of people behind their back as you make fun of them to their face. Any and all disparity in either direction is not a good sign, one of them is passive aggressive psychotic.
If you're an ego univested level three cognitive functioning know that every other ego univested level three cognitive functioning has your wall of perceived at level two cognitive functioning carefully analyzed and figured out, it takes about five minutes a day for about a week. It's likely being discussed. Everything you have revealed of your true self to one cognitive functioning level three is known to all interconnected cognitive functioning level threes, nobody knows anything about what is kept inside. In adolescence all interconnected cognitive functioning level threes pretty much means within your regional district. As an adolescent reading this, the bottom of your true self does not have within it what you wish to be once you socially EARN psychedelics just yet, it's not ready yet you're only going to embarrass yourself when you look back at what you did within the next few years figuring it out and now you don't get to do it because everybody KNOWS, everybody KNOWS your embarrassing what you thought it was supposed to be and NOW YOU DON'T GET TO DO IT, OTHERWISE YOU HAVE TO DROP ALL YOUR FRIENDS, NOW THE EARLY DEVELOPMENT OF YOUR IMAGE IS HEAVILY DAMAGED BY KNOWING WHAT'S OUT THERE.